Never Leave a Loving Friend In Your Life!

Life is very beautiful; it will introduce us to a lot of wonderful people. Some might be good, some might be bad and some might be unpredictable. We never expect whom we going to meet tomorrow until we have a fixed schedule. We usually give a lot of importance to few people who will never understand why we care and love them that much.

Few people are intelligent to push everything on fate and luck. No matter what ever happens in their lives, they will push it on fate. And few people are very daring to take each and everything positively and face every challenge without going back.  

Life will introduce to you to few people whom you always used to dream to have at least a cup of coffee. But who knows that this person will become everything in your life one day.  This sudden appearance people will play different roles in our lives. They can be your Best Friend, Lover, and Wife/Husband, or anything.

Who is a friend?

If we talk about friends, they are the most beautiful people on earth. They will blame you, make fun of you, irritate you, trouble you and bother you. At the same time, they will protect you, love you, care you, guide you and never leave you. A relationship between two friends should be mutual. Friendship doesn’t mean that you meet them every day and have a cup of coffee. There are a lot of things which make two people as friends. We usually stick on only one part of our lives and always run from facing challenges. We lose confidence, we lose our happiness and we lose our peace of mind.


Why? What makes us to feel sad all the time? What is that you never share anything with your dear ones?

The reason is, we never want our selves to be focused by others. We always try to hide under our blanket and wait for time to pass quickly.  We think that everything will be fine someday and we can start a new life again. No, this is not life... Life is a challenge, an adventure, a friend, a love, and many more things. Our life is really beautiful. We might miss many things in our life’s... But we should never make ourselves go down because of some one.

Should we run away from a problem?

Most of us will have a problem, these problems are very common. Just think for a while, if we humans are not having any problems, how are we different from animals and stones? A problem should be faced with a smile. Few people are very sensitive and never allow anyone to hurt them. If by mistake they are hurt by someone, they will never be normal for few days. This is not the right thing to do. We human beings should never allow intruders to get into our hearts and steal our valuable data. This is just the common mistake we all do. We try to run away from problem and feel bad later.

We might take few months to get a good relationship with our better halves. But it will take many years to become a good friend. We usually see a lot of friends fighting each other whole day and will be normal and caring at the end of the day. This is what the true essence of friendship lies.

A friend will always try to test your patience in every phase of his life. If you are with them each and every time, you will be blessed with a wonderful friend who will never leave you forever. A good friend will understand you in every phase of life. If you are irritated he will make you cool down. If you are worried, he will try to get a solution and if you are bothered, he will make sure you are safe, no matter what ever he has to face.


Why do we miss good people in our lives?

Well this question is not answered by many of us. First of all, we never know who is a good and a bad person. What makes us to decide a person is good or bad? Well, the best answer for this question is TIME. Yes, time will make you feel how important a friend is. God has created a friend only to share things with him. Because we will have some issues which cannot be said even to our family and parents. A friend will take each and every pain of yours and try to protect you.

Why do we go away from friends?

There might be many reasons for this, some may think we are burden to them, some might think we are bothering our friends; some might think we don’t need anyone and some might think I am good alone. There are a lot of reasons to leave a friend. But a true friend will never leave his friend for silly things. Especially when you are bothered with a problem, tell them that this is the problem and how we can sort it out. Hiding your problem and keeping it in yourself will not do any benefit to anyone. So from now if anyone is trying to take care of you, try to take their helping hand. Because a true friend will never expects anything from you apart from your happiness and smile.

No matter whatever it is, when some is showing you so much of care and respect, without expecting anything for you, you should trust them and be with them at least until its proved they are not worth. Missing people is not a fashion, It’s a pain and this pain will always leave you with regrets.

A good friend will never allow his friend to stay in sorrow. They might bother you, trouble you or irritate you, But try to understand a simple logic that : “Haar Ek Dosth Zarrori Hota Hai”