Rejections in Job- Don't be Demoralized

Rejections in Job- Don't be Demoralized

I felt that this article will be more meaningful during this time. "Recession" is gaining pace and students of 2011 and 2012 pass-out are both under its influence. It always is awful to get rejected by any means, specially when you have put in your 100% effort to accomplish or to achieve it.

But, it yet isn't the end of this world.

I have seen a lot of friends going through same, it affected them so much that they actually went into depression and took almost 2 years to come out of it. Even my dad went through it, but he was much experienced and old enough to tackle it and come out of it successfully.What you need during these times is nothing but will-power and family. Let me tell you few things that are affected due to rejections,how it effects your personal and professional life. Along with that i ll give you some of the tactics to overcome the dejection and refresh your life.

$ Irritation - Irritation and mood swings are the most common ways of showing that you are depressed in life.

Sol - Talk to a friend or a family member, tell them how you feel. Express yourself in every possible way. Tell them that you are going through a rough phase of time and you need help. Don't be ashamed, everyone goes through this point of time sooner or later in life. infact your family or friends will be happy that you are sharing all this with them. If you aren't the typical sharer types(Sufferer in Silence) then you can write down all this in a piece of paper or type it in computer. Jot down all your feelings and make sure you write down all the things you want to do to change it.

$Anger - The next big effect due to rejection is anger. You are always angry on everyone for no reason at all. The prime targets are your mother/Girlfriend/wife.

Sol - try to understand that everyone, irrespective of age,caliber, intelligence, goes through rejection. Everyday is not a Sunday. don't lose hope. Pacify yourself and get up every morning thinking about a new shining and happy day. Learn from your mistakes and remember one thing, you can earn money through million ways (correct ways) but you cant get back relationships once you have lost them. So be happy that god has blessed you with family & friends. If you still aren't able to get control, write in a piece of paper what you shouldn't do and what mistakes you have done.

$ Losing Hope - Don't lose hope. Don't lose confidence in yourself. The biggest strength during these times is your confidence in yourself.

Sol - Improve yourself with every single step. Its is OK if you fail, just dont quit.Keep practicing and give your best. See where you are going wrong and rectify yourself.Make sure you never repeat your mistakes.

5 best ways to get confidence, relieve from stress and refresh your life :

1. Practice Yoga - It is the best way to remain calm and deal with stress.
2. Walk-Go for a long aimless walk. Don't think about all tensions, just relive all the happy moments in life during the walk.
3. Go out with Friends- Go to a movie or lunch/dinner with friends. Relax and enjoy.
4. Spend time with family-talk your dad or mum into taking a day off and go out for picnic with your family. Go to a tranquil place where you can enjoy time with them.
5. Hobby-Do whatever you like. Dance,Swim,Jump,Sing do everything that makes you happy.

5 things you need to do after taking a break :

1.Write down in a piece of paper all the negative traits about you in an interview, the places where you go wrong. See how you can rectify them. If you cant rectify all of them at-least mask them. For example: If you lack in English speaking skills, practice few sentences in fluent and ornamental English (hi-fi English) and make sure you tell them in your interview.

2.Have several mock sessions - Ask your Friends/Family/Teaches to pretend as if you are having an interview. Let them ask all sorts of questions and make sure you jot down all the points after the session.

3.Improve Technical and Aptitude - Although you are very good at it, sometimes people may drain you at these levels.

4. Use net - Net has the biggest stock of questions related to interviews. Browse and use it.

5. Be Confident - The ultimate capsule for interview success is called as "confidence" . You need not know all the answers but you need to have the right attitude to get the job. Be flexible,polite and poised. Let them see your real potential.

You are bound to win, but it requires a bit a hard work and patience. All the best!!!